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Sunday, October 16, 2005

Little Sis

My little sister. My new best friend. The baby in the family, like she says about herself. I know she would probably be embarassed reading this, but hey little sis, it's ok. You know I like it when you blush.

I have always loved her, and like any two sisters, we have our ocasional arguments, but at the end of the day, we are sisters. And we love each other. Ma shaa Allah. And yet these last couple of years have been different. she has become my friend too. We have both been through rough times, and we both listen to the other. Together we sit and talk, listen and analyze issue after issue. We also have grown to enjoy each other's company and laugh together and have fun together. Again I say: ma shaa Allah. God protect this gift you have given us.

We are different, in attitude and personality, and yet we are the same. We get to feel that we are the same when with strangers. We have same ideas and ehtics a bit, but our attitude might be different that is all.

We even started blogging together. Although we have our separate blogs. And until now, not many people know that we are sisters. We thought it to be that way, for each of us to have an independent blog and view and even comment. Even separate favorites and separate readers. Not to mention we can better back each other up in vital issues, without it seen as just sisterhood support. We back each other if we agree with each other. If not, we usually are honest about it.

Last thing, who is this precious little sister of mine? well her name is....Roora!

16 Comments:

  • At 10/16/2005 1:08 AM, Blogger tota said…

    How Nice .. what about dalulla & nana are you friends in life too ?

     
  • At 10/16/2005 1:23 AM, Blogger Lasto-adri *Blue* said…

    masha2 ALLAH
    rabna ye5alekom li ba3d dayman

     
  • At 10/16/2005 2:09 AM, Blogger doshar said…

    yes, nana and dalulla are my friends in real life too! have known both for more than 12 years actually. dalulla introduced me to blogging :) , i introduced nana, but she is in canada now, and hasn't followed up on that.

    but i made some very nice cyber friends too. :)

    lasto adri: thank you ya bent. rabbena yekhalliki

     
  • At 10/16/2005 6:56 AM, Blogger LouLou said…

    Doshar,

    I knew that. One of you mentioned it somewhere. Can't remember exactly when.

    Rabi yideem elma3roof wikhaleekum liba3d.

    Have tried to interest my sister in blogging too. Always trying to get her to write to improve her English. But she doesn't like writing. And now she's going to Morocco where English is much less used than UAE or elsewhere in the world so I guess she'll be fine.

     
  • At 10/16/2005 3:48 PM, Blogger doshar said…

    i think it would be nice if you interest your sis in blogging. she is going to morocco, so it might not be to improve her english, but you will feel that she hasn't gone that far away, one more thing to share, you both would read each other's news (the little details you might not talk about on the phone).

    now that you tell me, i think i told me on her blog. guess it is not the world's best secret after all. :)

     
  • At 10/16/2005 4:11 PM, Blogger Wonderer said…

    hi doshar,
    Rabina ye.7aliko leba3d ya rab. It is really something when sisters and brother are friends as well.
    I always felt there is a kind of connection between you are roora, however, it thought it is just cyber friendship:))
    again rabina ye.7aliko leba3d

     
  • At 10/16/2005 7:36 PM, Blogger defiant goddess said…

    Aww, that's sweet. My sisters are my best friends, too.

    As-Salaam Alaikum.

     
  • At 10/16/2005 8:22 PM, Blogger Dalulla said…

    correction here.. For Doshar Roora is more than a sis, she is like her baby in the loving and providing sense...

    I just wanted to tell u guys Doshar is such a loving sister, not like the usual sisters we see every day.

    Sometimes i feel she is more a mother than a sister to roora.

    Masha'Allah. Fe3lan it is a blessing worth thanking Allah for as Doshar has in her post. Allah ye7meeko ya doshar enty we roora.

     
  • At 10/16/2005 9:20 PM, Blogger Me said…

    Yessssssssssssssss ya Doshar ... you told me on my blog :-D
    I have this habit of making friends in pairs (sisters) a lot of my friends are sisters...and here you both are.. cyber friends...also sisters ... must say I'm lucky :-)

    Rabena yebarek feekom we ye7meekom

     
  • At 10/17/2005 4:24 AM, Blogger Rain said…

    Wow...that's really moving..God bless you both.

     
  • At 10/17/2005 8:23 PM, Blogger Paul said…

    I wonder how many of these "hidden relationships" are out there on the blogosphere? Maybe there should be a sort of blog unmasking day.

    Anyway, something to think about, Mom... ha ha...

     
  • At 10/17/2005 9:04 PM, Blogger doshar said…

    wonderer,
    you really felt there was something connecting me to roora? thanks for the sweet doaa.

    goddess, so you know the gift of sisters too. nice seeing you here. we 3alaykom al salam we ra7mato Allah we barakato

    dalulla habibty, you know, roora was really embarassed by my post, then more by your comment! keep it up :). you know you are a sister to me too ya habibty.

    me,
    yes you were the one we told our deep secret :). shofty ba2a the manzela we gave you :)

    rain,
    thank you. God bless you too.

    paul,
    blog unmasking? could be interesting. though i don't have much more to hide.

     
  • At 10/18/2005 7:56 AM, Blogger Charismatic Soul said…

    doshar, im late i know *blush*

    but thats just amazing, it never crossed my mind that you and roora are sisters! that caught me by surprise, but now i know why i like reading both your blogs ;)
    you both are two very interesting individuals.

    keep it up and rabena yekhaliko l ba3d :)

     
  • At 10/19/2005 7:43 PM, Blogger MoonLightShadow said…

    That was really surprising! I’ve always felt a connection between you, Roora, Me, and Dalulla, but it never crossed my mind that Doshar and Roora are sisters!

    Personally, if I had a sister, I guess I would have never told her about my blog. I have a brother, but I rarely let members of the family know anything about me. I don’t want them to know how do I think, it sounds strange, but I don’t want them to invade my privacy!

     
  • At 10/20/2005 2:27 AM, Blogger doshar said…

    actually moon, my sis is the only memeber of my family who knows about my blog. because she already knows most of my thoughts and secrets anyway. i have a brother, and i would never even hint to him that there is such thing as a blog. So far, i do not plan to tell my future husband either. i need my space after all!

     
  • At 10/23/2005 4:11 AM, Blogger Dalulla said…

    seems i'm too outspoken guys.. i sometimes want to change that, but am totally unable to. Guess i shoild fold some pages from my book too, but i know that won't happen. I tried before, but it has been proven that i am a total failure!

    some one, please give me some adivise!

     

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