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Monday, August 01, 2005

i just stumbled on this blog called 100 reasons why i hate my husband. it is really wierd. i didn't know to laugh or cry. this woman is literally listing 100 reasons that she hates (and yes i very much believe she does) her husband. she says it is for the sake of their daughter, but come on, your daughter would probably be better off if you two are happily married, or happily divorced. growing up in a house where the parents hate each other can be very damaging to the child psychology.


and i felt so sorry for her (even though i don't approve of talking ill of your partner). being stuck in a marriage with someone you hate... much worse than being alone. hope she finds her peace before she kills him!

7 Comments:

  • At 8/01/2005 3:09 AM, Blogger Dalulla said…

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  • At 8/01/2005 3:13 AM, Blogger Dalulla said…

    Hi ya doudou.. I checked the site out.. read till i think reason number 7 or 8.. I honestly do not know what to think so far, but if she is honest, God help her to tolerate what she is going through from what i read in the first 7-8 reasons. and him too, we are only reading from one side..

    However,I do not feel that posting these things was the right thing to do. Regardless of what J is like.

    I still need to read further on to have a better opinion, or maybe i won't at all, still do not know what to do.

    But, IT IS Terrible! all of it. Allaho Al Musta3aaan ... really. I pray Allah yahdeehom both! That is the only thing i can think of now..

    8/01/2005 3:09 AM

     
  • At 8/01/2005 11:41 AM, Blogger LouLou said…

    Doshar,

    Well you have to admit that at least her blog is different & an interesting an idea.

    Poor woman though. She sounds really miserable.

     
  • At 8/01/2005 12:40 PM, Blogger irina said…

    Poor human souls... Someone told me that the cause of many of our problems is our own selves... And the solution to them lies within us as well... May God help her, and him...

     
  • At 8/01/2005 12:54 PM, Blogger Alina said…

    Well, I am pretty sure the child will be damaged more if she stays in this marriage! Children always feel these things and they are affected more then when the parents split up. Althoug divorces are though on children, at least the never ending tension is out of their lives!
    I used to be really sad that my parents got divorced. Now I realize that having them in the same house, arguing and hating eachother, would have driven me crazy for sure!

     
  • At 8/01/2005 11:45 PM, Blogger Paul said…

    "Sometimes you have to divorce for the sake of the children." This was something my Mom heard a famous talk show host say back in the sixties - Johnny Carson.

    It was the first step in her deciding to divorce our father, which was a good move, and really would have been better for all of us if she'd done it years earlier.

    Not that marriage is to be taken lightly, but our mother stuck it out for 21 years, and it was unhappy almost from the start.

     
  • At 8/09/2005 12:06 PM, Blogger Shirazi said…

    There are certian exagaration but if it is taken as truth, I wish the child well. J may be worst but what the women is doing? How will we know the other side of the story? No way?

     

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