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Monday, July 25, 2005

Everyone hears what you say.
Friends listen to what you say.
Best friends listen to what you don't say.



A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart
and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.

14 Comments:

  • At 7/26/2005 3:33 AM, Blogger Dalulla said…

    I agree with you soooooooooo much. It is a blessing to have a best friend. I would also like to add, a best friend is one who makes your heat sing with words you never realised existed!

     
  • At 7/26/2005 6:42 AM, Blogger nana said…

    Hi Ya Doo,
    Happy for you that you have a lot of best friends, ( for me I have only one )

     
  • At 7/26/2005 2:43 PM, Blogger irina said…

    Seeing the unseen, the unshown, reading the unwritten, doing the undone... such a deep thought...

     
  • At 7/27/2005 4:21 AM, Blogger Dalulla said…

    Nana, Sometimes it is much better to have a one special friend.. One who is your special someone and you being theirs. But having more than one doesn't mean that someone favors one over the other, it is just someimes a matter of luck that a person might stumble on more than one person they get along with well.. but i am sure that your best friend has a very special place in her heart for you, maybe more than you even know it. Maybe you are her top of the list best friend. Crem d'la crem of friends.

    By the way,I am ignorant in french, so forgive my spelling
    :-)

     
  • At 7/27/2005 6:51 AM, Blogger Shirazi said…

    You are so right and pic is so aptly supporting what you say.

     
  • At 7/27/2005 11:38 AM, Blogger irina said…

    Dallula, would you mind me correcting you a bit?
    It´s "crème de la crème"... I liked the metaphor :)

     
  • At 7/28/2005 11:11 AM, Blogger Sarah said…

    Nice words, but c'mon guys do such people really exists??

     
  • At 7/28/2005 11:26 AM, Blogger doshar said…

    jade; actually they do. yes, they may be hard to find, and they might let you down sometimes (but rarely though) but overall they do exist. hope you find yours. maybe you already did, but you don't realize it.

     
  • At 7/29/2005 12:18 AM, Blogger Renee Wagemans said…

    very nice words

     
  • At 7/29/2005 3:20 AM, Blogger Dalulla said…

    Irina,
    I don't mind you correcting me at all. I enjoy constructive help and criticism. Even if it is a small detail, but it can mean so much.

    Jade, there are real good people, but what is funny sometimes they don't even know it till they are lucky enough to stumble onto someone that might be able to trigger the good within. It is a well know philophical fact. and from experience i believe in it so much. It was something i studied in philosophy and pshycology as well.
    This world is filled with beauty, only we need to open up a bit and be courageous enough to see it. If u can't see it, imagine it, believe in it, soon enough it will become a reality in your life and will have a very positive impact on u and others around u.

     
  • At 7/29/2005 9:36 AM, Blogger Sarah said…

    Yeah Gals, I know that I should believe and give a chance to people around me and I did trust someone, I did with all my heart and what I got back was someting so harch and cruel that actually ruined the saying that you "reep what you saw" right out of it's roots for me.
    I just can not take another disaapointment like that. I needed and trusted this person and all of a sudden i was a liability that is no longer needed. I wont let myself be like that again. I still can not get over that feeling and I don't think that this scar will ever heal.
    I just thought of saying that so you all would know that I am not pissimisstic, I am just plainely... realistic.

     
  • At 7/29/2005 11:14 AM, Blogger irina said…

    Dear Jade,
    I don't think you are realistic. You are deeply hurt, indeed. When we get hurt we become so afraid to try again. Not having the courage to trust again might mean to be afraid of really living... No one should go through that, it is such a pity. It is difficult to get hurt and go on the same way. But then I think another trust could heal your wounds...
    Wish you all the best.

     
  • At 7/29/2005 11:26 AM, Blogger doshar said…

    jade, i understand what you are saying. i went through something very similar once, and yes it was very painful. and i dread going through it again. but i would like to believe that the fault is in the other person not in me or in trust in general. i need to have hope that this is not reality, or i would simply sieze to live.

    a good strategy is to trust and love, while keeping your eyes open and your self value in front of you, so as not to be taken for granted again.

     
  • At 7/29/2005 5:14 PM, Blogger Sarah said…

    Well, I know but you know what is tearing me apart and scare me the mosrt is the feeling that my sweetest memories and expereince that I ever felt could be something casual or even remorsed by the same individual I shared with. Actually I think that I am scared to death of the thought. Man, I am really pathetic.

    Thanks For trying to make me feel better girls.

    8D

     

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